If you don't wanna do it, don't force yourself.

I am a BTB, not an autocratic freak.

If I know you are doing it out of obligation, I wont't feel happy about it.
If I know you are doing it because you think it will make me happy by doing so, then let me tell you now:

I am not happy just because you are doing it.

如果你认为我是这样的人，是一个不顾别人感受，只顾自己要不要、喜欢不喜欢的那种人，
你错了。

Yes, it is my special day.
And I want to make it as special as I can.

But I do not want to do it at the expense of others.

More important for me, is for you to come and share the joy...
To be truly happy, to enjoy the event.

If doing what I ask you to do is going to make you unhappy..then please don't agree to do it just because you think it'll make me happy.

对我来说，你们的快乐，比一个完美的婚礼重要。
因为你们的快乐，会让我跟着开心起来。

我不需要你们牺牲。
不想做，请直说。

因为亲爱的朋友们，勉强是没有幸福的。
所以，不要勉强自己。

你们的勉强，只让我更难过。

~宁为玉碎，不为瓦全~