i'm an alien

quick question: what do you do when your gf/bf calls you on your handphone but u din pick up your phone? (i.e. there's 2 missed calls on your handphone and a voice mail from her/him)

a)ignore it.probably nothing serious anyway.
b)send her/him an sms so she/he wouldn't worry.
c)call her/him back as soon as possible.

ok,my answer would be b or c.and next quick question, am i crazy for thinking that's what my bf should have done when he din pick up my call last night?

now now,before you jump to his defence...i am not kicking a big fuss cos he din pick up my call. he was busy. fine, so be it. but is it too much to ask for if i was expecting him to call me back? ok,maybe he thinks it's already pretty late over here and he din wanna wake me up from dreamland...but how about an sms which i can read in the morning??

and somehow,he managed to find secret option

(d)wait for bf/gf to call/sms again then reply.

so i sms-ed him in the morning, saying that he din answer my call and i am abit worried.

about an hour later, i got his reply "...i am fine. don't be so paranoid. i was very busy last night."

OUCH so i guess in this day and age, being concerned for the person i love is equivalent to being paranoid.i must be too old and out-dated to keep up with all these new definitions.

and to think the reason i called him last night was to tell him that i've changed my flight to an earlier date.the supposedly good news has resulted in my broken heart and very bruised ego.

i am still in shock..and in pain...and angry...and fustrated. i just wanna crawl into a hole and hide,so i'll never have to face any guys ever again.

if men are from mars and women are from venus...i think i am from pluto...cos i dun understand either men or women.